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Rishta Day: K&T Rishta
A Rishta is the first event that takes place before any other future events. A Rishta is an event in which the groom's family visits the bride's family and to get together to make an agreement for the marriage to take place and for the groom to ask for his hand in marriage. This event is the most nerve wracking day of them all for the bride and groom. This is the day for the groom to out stand themselves and to say how great of a husband he will be to his wife's parents and for them to accept him as a great son-in-law. Once the agreements have taken place, a prayer is made to bless the soon to be bride and groom with God's love and blessings.
Interviewing Kaleem and Thaiba on how to prepare to someone also in their 20s for their first Rishta:
Kaleem's answer:
"Reflect on your values and your goals in life. Be mentally prepared, understand and reveal your top priories in a marriage during your Rishta. Be open minded, share what you are looking for in a wife and what are you willing to compromise on. Personal hygiene is key. Make sure you look well presented, smell nice, show your respect, show you are wanting this marriage. Be polite and kind and to speak confidently when being involved in a conversation. These are the basics you can show but it's not as stressful, just take deep breaths before the moment and you will ace it."
Thaiba's answer:
"Your first Rishta as a female can be emotional, especially with the thought of leaving your childhood home. Take some time to mentally prepare yourself for this big step. During the Rishta, be honest about your future goals, family traditions, and your top priorities, and to make sure the person aligns with your expectations. Stay respectful, maintain eye contact, and be polite and kind. With some preparation, you'll be fine. Best of luck."
Nikkah (engagement day):
An all white and gold magical Islamic Nikkah ceremony bought Kaleem and Thaiba together for the first time and a traditional Pakistani wedding with friends and family to carry them into their future. Kaleem and Thaiba met at a young age through both mother's being close friends during their childhood in Pakistan. Life recently, Kaleem and Thaiba knew they wanted to spend the rest of their lives together. Their whole wedding included their magical Nikkah followed by a colourful Mehndi ending with an elegant Baraat.
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DHOLKI: Kaleem's Dholki | Thaiba's Dholki
A Dholki is a traditional Pakistani event that is hosted at the brides and grooms house fulfilling the atmospheric cheerful, festive noises such as the beats of the drum, laughter, singing and clapping. Traditionally, women lead the Dholki event, singing songs fitting the occasion.
Bold vibrant decorations, colourful outfits and feasts of traditional Pakistani dishes throughout the Dholki night. The Dholki is an event where the bride and grooms family come together, creating a bond and to celebrate the culture and to have lots of fun and joy that surrounds the couple, embarking on their new life together.
Dancing, singing and lots of food and vibrate colours all around you, creating the emotion. A Dholki is a night to cherish, creating unforgettable family memories.
MEHDNI: Kaleem's Mehndi | Thaiba's Mehndi
Thaiba's Mehndi:
A traditional Pakistani Mehndi is the warmth of any Pakistani wedding. A Mehndi night with bright vibrant colours all around loud Bollywood much fitting the occasion and creating unforgettable moment to be cherished forever with your close friends and family. Warmth colours such as yellows, oranges, greens and pinks, symbolising a sense of happiness and joy. Welcoming all guests with a traditional Pakistani feasts, enjoying mouth watering dishes such as rice, chicken, kebabs and chicken catered at all events. Being in the atmosphere, witnessing a Pakistani Mehndi is a delight to your heart. Lots of fun, dancing on the floor, singing, glow sticks in the air, creating many memories that can be looked at after the event.
A Mehndi is not just a wedding event, it's a firework exploading love, culture, joy and happiness setting a warmth feeling to the guests, building up the excitement for the baraat.
Kaleem's Mehndi:
A traditional Pakistani groom's Mehndi is the most energetic, colourful and energetic event. This when both the bride and the grooms family come together enjoying the Mehndi night filled with Bollywood music, dancing, beats of the drum, fireworks and cultural traditions. Dressed in traditional Pakistani attire, the groom takes all the attention from the guests revealing his outfit. Choosing your mehndi outfit can be really stressful. However with the groom we present in the magazine bought not only his wedding outfit in one day but also his Mehndi outfit too!
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WEDDING:
Why Black?
On most Pakistani weddings, the colour black is often seen as being valorous and a regal option for a groom to wear on his Baraat. Traditionally, grooms before wore brighter colours or different shades of red to crown the bride's elegant red dress. However, the colour black has now become very popular to its elegance.
Historically, the colour black has been related towards power and culture. The colour black connotes the meaning of strength and toughness, symbolising with the role of a groom as now being the protector in the marriage. Black has now become the colour in which creates a significant contrast against the bride's elegant red dress, making both them to stand out together more angelic.
Wearing the colour black for a groom is not only about the trend - it's an utterance of elegance, strengthen and to have pride in culture.
Why Red?
The colour red has been a mark of good luck, success and happiness in South Asian cultures, including Pakistan. For centuries, brides have enhanced themselves in red on their wedding day, believing that it brings positive energy, blessings and protection against the evil eye. This tradition has been deeply engraved in cultural use, with many brides wearing red just as their mothers and grandmothers did- some red dresses even been passed down through generations.
While red stays a royal look, modern brides are now embracing lighter hues like pistachio, pinks and other pastel tones because of their personal preference. Eventually, the colour a bride does choose, should make her feel confident and comfortable because it is her special day. Whether it's red or a softer shade, the choice is for her to make.
Rukhsati:
As we celebrate the harmony of two souls, let's take a moment to embrace the unstated emotions of parents bidding farewell to their dearest daughter. Imagine devoting your heart and soul to raising your child into this world, taking care of her, making her being a compassionate woman, only to then hand her over to another - hoping they will cherish her with the same faithfulness.
Every parent dreams is for their daughter to be treated like royalty, showered with love and affection and to have all her wishes fulfilled.
To all the strong mothers and fathers handing their precious gems for marriage, I personally sent my heartfelt prayers. May the Almighty above bless their daughters with honourable husbands who will love and treasure their daughter endlessly. Ameen.
The Baraat:
A Baraat is the heart piece of a Pakistani wedding, where tradition and culture meets glory in an unforgettable show of celebration. The groom's entrance is nothing but outstanding, as he arrives amongst the beats of the drums and with guests dancing Bhangra. Smoke grenades and fireworks adding light and colours to the baraat, symbolising the joy and excitement of the event.
As tradition, the groom must achieve his way by humorously negotiating with the bride's sisters who demand an entrance fee to let the groom through - this is a cherished and an unforgettable memory which adds laughter to the wedding. As the groom finishes his entrance, the guests eyes all pan towards the bride.
Dressed in an elegant red dress, the bride show off elegance and regal, every intricate detail of her dress shine back centuries of tradition and cultural delight. As she walks in, the hall noise fades out as her entrance song plays, and all of the guests are fascinated by her appearance.
The groom then approaches to greet his brides parents. In this moment of exchange, the bride's parents place their full trust in the groom with their beloved daughter. It is an indication filled with love, hope and prayers, symbolising the union of two families.